How to Draw Your Ex Back - Strut Your Stuff!

If you are being insecure and portraying desperation to your ex boyfriend, you can forget about ever getting him to want to be around you, far less ever wanting to get back together with you. 

Think about it, would you want to go out with someone who was always begging you to pay them some attention?

You would think that this person has got to be really desperate to be running behind you and pleading with you to go out. You would think that there must be something wrong with the person. 

It is obvious they cannot get a date. That means no one wants to be with them or go out with them. That would be a red flag!

You do NOT want your ex to red flag you. 

Suck it up and hold yourself in a way that makes you feel and act like the confident, secure, alluring, magnetic person you are and use the power that you wield from exuding that confidence to draw you your ex steadily back to you. This is the only way you will have a chance!

This is in essence the ATTITUDE I'm always talking about!

Always remember that men and women are naturally drawn to confidence and finesse with a hint of cockiness. This is because it gives the impression of unavailability. This is the impression you want to give to your ex.

You have to make them realize that you are no longer within their reach. Your ex cannot snap his fingers and have you back. He has to work for your attention now because you are unobtainable.

You will probably need some help with this if you have been feeling lost without your ex-boyfriend. 

In order for you to get him back, you have to find YOURSELF! 

You have not lost him, you've lost yourself if you are feeling like nothing without him. 

So we need to change that first for this to even begin to work. 

If you do this the right way, not only can you get your ex back but you can have him totally addicted to you! How does that sound?

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How To Draw Your Ex Back - Does Your Ex Meet YOUR Standards?

After you are dumped, you become obsessed with trying to find out how to get your ex back. That obsession plays itself out in various ways.

You think about your ex constantly; you can't eat or sleep; you wonder what you could say to get them to come back to you and give you another chance; you call incessantly and beg and try to convince them that you are a better person. I've been there too so I know what you are going through.

The problem is you are flogging a dead horse at this point so you might as well give it up because none of that will work. 

You will think yourself to death wondering what your ex is doing and what you could have done to prevent the break-up and what else you could say to change the situation but that will not bring favourable results.

No amount of begging, crying or starving yourself will get your ex back either so you might as well stop it and start eating because you can bet your bottom dollar that your ex is moving on without you and living it up in the process.

So what do you do?

You need to get in control of you and your emotions. To do that ask yourself some questions and really try to find answers. This is how you take back control. Ask yourself the following:

Why do you want your ex back?
Does he or she meet your standards as a partner?
Has your ex brought any value to your life?
Are you better off now than you were before meeting your ex?
What are the advantages of having your ex around?

When you answer these questions honestly and you decide that you want your ex back, then you need an easy strategy to get you exactly what you want. 

But you don't just want your ex back, right? You want your ex to be completely into you. I agree, you might as well go the whole way!

How to Draw Your Ex Back - 4 Ways To Get Him Thinking About You Constantly

To have any chance of getting back together with your ex, you have ease into your ex's mind and then camp out there. 

It is when your ex starts to think of you again and again and then becomes obsessed with you that you will be able to draw him back.

So how do you do this initially?

-Limit all contact with your ex. Do NOT EVER initiate calls, texts, emails, IM or Facebook messages.

-Do NOT return calls, texts or emails sent by your ex. This is a delicate one that must be used cautiously and for a limited amount of time. You know your ex and the dynamics of your relationship so use this tip at your discretion.

-When contact is reestablished, limit all phone conversations to ten minutes. 

You must end the conversations first. At this point, you are too occupied anyway to be spending hours chatting with ex. Your time is valuable to YOU and, in addition, your ex sees he is no longer a priority in your life.

-During conversations, remain mysterious. Your ex must always be left thinking that there is something more to the story; something more going on in your life that you are not saying; something more to you. This is what makes them insatiable and hungry for more.

This is just the tip of the iceberg though. I assure you that it is so much fun. So now that you are on your ex's mind constantly, how about we bring this home and get you your ex back?

 Are you game? 

If you are sure that you want this man back, then click here, kick back, have some fun, get him back and have him addicted to you.

You'll see why I say that as soon as you begin the programme!

Do NOT underestimate the power of positive energy to draw your ex back!

Many do not know that the negative energy that they are projecting is a major factor in keeping them from getting a second chance with their ex-boyfriend. Are you using your energy or your vibe to push your ex away from you or to draw your ex back to you? Your energy has to work to draw them in. Here is why.

A break-up is always a mass of negative emotions. You calling, pleading and begging your ex to reconsider the relationship and to give you a second chance is simply making the situation worse because negative emotion is being perpetuated.

Each time you pick up the phone or send an email or text message to plead, cry, throw a temper tantrum or lay a guilt trip, you are sending out more and more negative vibes and projecting those onto your ex.

The result is that you see the back of your ex as he or she tries desperately to flee this overwhelming negativity. So far, since the break-up, each time your ex thinks of you, it takes them right back to a place of negative energy and emotion they want to get away from.

So now you have to change your vibe and project positive emotion to draw your ex back to you. You want that when your ex thinks of you, only a flurry of positive, happy-go-lucky, fluffy, fuzzy, fun thoughts spring to mind immediately.

And yes that is actually a pink fluffy cloud image! I mean it, think positive fluffy fun thoughts!

You are probably wondering how to do that, right? There is an entire new system you can use to achieve this.

Have fun with it!

How to draw your ex back - 3 quick tips to help you get in control of the situation

Have you let it all out now? Have you let out all the anger, the frustration, the disbelief that he left you in the lurch because you were not good enough in some way? 

Good!

WOOSAH! *puts you in child's pose*

For a few days or maybe even a few weeks, while you were hurt and begging for a second chance, your ex had complete control over you and your emotions. The question is, are you ready to get in control of the situation and find out how to draw your ex back? 

If your answer is yes, here are three quick tips to do just that.

One, stop all communication with your ex right now for at least 14 days. From personal experience, this gives you the time you need to think about you, get in control of the situation and develop a strategy to get that second chance you want.

Two, you have to understand and fully accept that you are in control of you. You cannot and should not allow anyone to control you to the point where you lose your dignity and self-respect. Your ex is a wonderful person I am sure but does not own or control you or your emotions.

YOU and your emotions are more important than any ex is or will ever be!

Three, you know that because you are in control of you and your life, you will be fine with or without your ex. In fact, because you are so sure of that, take a pen and a piece of paper and write down all the reasons why you are indeed fine. 

Find whatever reason you can find to be happy where you are right now in life without your ex. You have no idea how much power this has in and of itself.

Now you are in control of the situation. How does it feel? 

Now if after doing all of that and assessing the relationship, you still want to rekindle things with your ex, we're going to do this the RIGHT way.

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Girl, you'll be fine I promise you.