If you are being insecure and portraying desperation to your ex boyfriend, you can forget about ever getting him to want to be around you, far less ever wanting to get back together with you.
Think about it, would you want to go out with someone who was always begging you to pay them some attention?
You would think that this person has got to be really desperate to be running behind you and pleading with you to go out. You would think that there must be something wrong with the person.
It is obvious they cannot get a date. That means no one wants to be with them or go out with them. That would be a red flag!
You do NOT want your ex to red flag you.
Suck it up and hold yourself in a way that makes you feel and act like the confident, secure, alluring, magnetic person you are and use the power that you wield from exuding that confidence to draw you your ex steadily back to you. This is the only way you will have a chance!
This is in essence the ATTITUDE I'm always talking about!
Always remember that men and women are naturally drawn to confidence and finesse with a hint of cockiness. This is because it gives the impression of unavailability. This is the impression you want to give to your ex.
You have to make them realize that you are no longer within their reach. Your ex cannot snap his fingers and have you back. He has to work for your attention now because you are unobtainable.
You will probably need some help with this if you have been feeling lost without your ex-boyfriend.
In order for you to get him back, you have to find YOURSELF!
You have not lost him, you've lost yourself if you are feeling like nothing without him.
So we need to change that first for this to even begin to work.
If you do this the right way, not only can you get your ex back but you can have him totally addicted to you! How does that sound?
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