How To Draw Your Ex Back - Does Your Ex Meet YOUR Standards?

After you are dumped, you become obsessed with trying to find out how to get your ex back. That obsession plays itself out in various ways.

You think about your ex constantly; you can't eat or sleep; you wonder what you could say to get them to come back to you and give you another chance; you call incessantly and beg and try to convince them that you are a better person. I've been there too so I know what you are going through.

The problem is you are flogging a dead horse at this point so you might as well give it up because none of that will work. 

You will think yourself to death wondering what your ex is doing and what you could have done to prevent the break-up and what else you could say to change the situation but that will not bring favourable results.

No amount of begging, crying or starving yourself will get your ex back either so you might as well stop it and start eating because you can bet your bottom dollar that your ex is moving on without you and living it up in the process.

So what do you do?

You need to get in control of you and your emotions. To do that ask yourself some questions and really try to find answers. This is how you take back control. Ask yourself the following:

Why do you want your ex back?
Does he or she meet your standards as a partner?
Has your ex brought any value to your life?
Are you better off now than you were before meeting your ex?
What are the advantages of having your ex around?

When you answer these questions honestly and you decide that you want your ex back, then you need an easy strategy to get you exactly what you want. 

But you don't just want your ex back, right? You want your ex to be completely into you. I agree, you might as well go the whole way!