Have you let it all out now? Have you let out all the anger, the frustration, the disbelief that he left you in the lurch because you were not good enough in some way?
Good!
WOOSAH! *puts you in child's pose*
For a few days or maybe even a few weeks, while you were hurt and begging for a second chance, your ex had complete control over you and your emotions. The question is, are you ready to get in control of the situation and find out how to draw your ex back?
If your answer is yes, here are three quick tips to do just that.
One, stop all communication with your ex right now for at least 14 days. From personal experience, this gives you the time you need to think about you, get in control of the situation and develop a strategy to get that second chance you want.
Two, you have to understand and fully accept that you are in control of you. You cannot and should not allow anyone to control you to the point where you lose your dignity and self-respect. Your ex is a wonderful person I am sure but does not own or control you or your emotions.
YOU and your emotions are more important than any ex is or will ever be!
Three, you know that because you are in control of you and your life, you will be fine with or without your ex. In fact, because you are so sure of that, take a pen and a piece of paper and write down all the reasons why you are indeed fine.
Find whatever reason you can find to be happy where you are right now in life without your ex. You have no idea how much power this has in and of itself.
Now you are in control of the situation. How does it feel?
Now if after doing all of that and assessing the relationship, you still want to rekindle things with your ex, we're going to do this the RIGHT way.
Click here to find out how.
Girl, you'll be fine I promise you.
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