If you want to get back together with your ex, being friends is definitely not the best idea.
If you are asking "how can I be friends with my ex?", it is most likely because you are at your wits end trying to figure out how to stay in your ex's life even though he has rejected you and is probably ignoring you now or dating someone else.
In order words, your ex has made it clear that he does not want you to play an active role in his life as a significant other. You have really got to figure some things out if you want to stand a chance of being a happy couple again.
First, you have to figure out why you would want to be friends with someone who has already made it clear that you did not meet their standards as a partner.
If your ex is beating the drum of remaining friends then it must mean that you are important to them in some way, right? That also means that if you were to disappear altogether, they would probably miss you right?
Correct, so now you are going to use that to your advantage!
Second, understand that you cannot be available to your ex as a close friend and hope to get your ex back at the same time. You have to make a choice.
Would you prefer to have your ex as a friend in which case you will hear all the gory details of their dating exploits?
Or, would you prefer to have your ex as a significant other who is totally devoted to you?
If you really want to get back together with your ex boyfriend, then you cannot be friends with your ex. I explained that here in this post and explained two ways you can make it clear that you do NOT want to be friends in this post.
What you can do is to be as elusive as possible and start on an easy step-by-step plan which will have your ex wanting you as more than a friend in no time! How does that sound?
Well, let's get started then. Click here to learn more and begin!
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