If you have recently broken up with your boyfriend, I am sure that you have already sent your ex a barrage of texts and email messages; called him repeatedly and told him how much you miss him and want him back. All of this was done in an effort to get him to see the error of his ways and convince him of what a good catch you are.
How did that work out for you? Read on to find out how you can get his attention right now and to find out about a plan that is sure to have you back in his arms.I bet that the more you tried to get in touch with your ex and the more you tried to wrestle with him and force him to come back to you, the more annoyed he got with you and the more he fought to try to get away from you. I bet it got to the point where he no longer wanted to talk to you at all and began to avoid all your calls and ignore you.
Congratulations! You have now been assigned the label of the desperate psycho ex-girlfriend who is obsessed with him and will not leave him alone. Just great...
In order for you to get his attention, prove you are a sane human being and stand any chance of getting back together with him, you will have to pull yourself together, calm down and drastically change your approach. The best way to do this, though it may seem bizarre and counter-intuitive, is to take a step back.
You must stop initiating all contact with him immediately for at least 14 days. This approach is guaranteed to get his attention because it will have him thinking about you; wondering where you are; why he has not heard from you and why you are no longer begging him to take you back.When he starts thinking these thoughts over and over he will contact you to assuage his curiosity. But hold on... When he calls you, do you know what your next steps should be?
If you do not have a plan, you will end up damaging your relationship even more when he does contact you.
Remember that you HAVE to remember that you are call the shots now because you are in control of the situation.
He called you, didn't he?
That's the first step!
Now you've already made up your mind to get him back because you answered the questions right?
Well click here and you can get started right away to implement the rest of your plan!
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