When Ex Calls - Hold It, Are You Ready?

Your objective was to get your ex back so you knew that you had stop all communication with your ex to stand a chance at achieving this. You might have decided that you would do this for about 21 days. 

So you start and you are doing well but you get to day 15 and out of the blue your ex calls to see what you are up to? How do you handle this?

If you remember, one of the reasons you started no contact was that you had to create an emotional distance between you and your ex so that you could calm down, regroup and regain control of you and your emotions. 

In other words, to help stop you from acting like a nutcase your ex wanted to get away from.

Congratulations! It worked. 

Your ex is no longer running away from you and is actually making the first moves to contact you! This is exactly what you wanted, right? 

Now you want to just get on the phone and profess your undying love and tell them you are ecstatic that they finally came to their senses and realized that you two were meant to be together!

Hold it! Not so fast...do that and you can kiss your chances of ever getting them back goodbye. They will be gone with the wind!

Before you even attempt to answer the call or return the call or the email, you have to make sure that you are mentally and emotionally ready to have a conversation with your ex. Remember I mentioned that in this blog post?

Ask yourself the following questions and allow your feelings to be your guide:

If your ex were to tell you right now that he is no longer in love with you, how would you feel?

If you invited your ex out to lunch and he said no, how would you feel?

If during this conversation your ex were to tell you that he was seeing someone else would you be OK with that?

If you found out that your ex was moving to another state or country, how would you feel?

If when you asked these questions you feel sad or panicked in any way, forget about taking the call or returning the call until you are sufficiently detached from the outcome of the situation.

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When Ex Calls - 4 Easy Ways To Maintain Control

When your ex calls during a period of no contact, it is a sure sign that he is thinking about you!  At that point this is ALL that that means! Read my blog post on why you shouldn't get too excited right now.

Just chill...

If you are emotionally ready to re-establish contact with your ex then you can proceed.

If it is too early during the no-contact period, you are probably not ready and should try to avoid phone calls as much as possible. Your voice and how you respond to your ex will be a dead giveaway. 

What do we mean by emotionally ready?

When you are detached enough from the outcome of any conversation you may have with your ex, then you are ready to accept calls and return calls as you see fit. 

Remember that you are still in control of you and your emotions. You are still in control of the situation and if you want to remain in control, you have to handle any contact your ex initiates the right way.

Here are four quick tips to help you maintain control:

1. Do NOT pick up the first time he calls. Let it go to voice mail. You have a life and are not sitting around waiting on your ex-boyfriend to call you.

2. Return the call when you have some spare time.

3. Make sure that you are in a positive frame of mind when you return the call. Remember, you are having a blast (don't exaggerate, please) and the way you talk has to reflect that.

4. Keep the call under 10 minutes and divulge little to nothing about what you are doing with your life.

This is not about playing games and if you are playing games your ex will know right away. 

For this to work properly you have to reflect the type of attitude, grace and poise that men, ALL men, including your ex-boyfriend are drawn to!


You can't fake that though.


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