Tuesday 11 October 2011

When Your Ex Calls During No Contact - What Does It Mean?


I am positive that you only thought of this when your ex tried to contact you right in the middle of a no-contact period that was going so well. 
You began to feel in total control of the situation. You got your emotions under control and suddenly you could not care less if you ever heard from your ex again...that is, until your ex called or tried to contact you. Am I right?
Then you got all ecstatic and thought, "what do I do now?"; "does this mean that he wants to get back together?"; "wow, this worked so fast!". 
I'm going to need you to get a grip and focus. You do not want to blow your chances of getting back together with your ex so calm down.
Understand and accept that when your ex calls you after not hearing from you for several days, in the grand scheme of things, it means absolutely nothing at this stage. 
Your ex may merely have wanted to see if you were still alive or in the country. It does NOT mean that your ex is thinking of getting back together with you. I am very sorry to burst your bubble here but this is information that is vital!
The good news is that the fact that your ex called means that your ex is thinking about you. You got your ex to think about you just by disappearing for a few days. 
It also means that there is more work for you to do. You have to up the ante. You have to turn on the pressure by focusing even more on you to draw your ex steadily back to you, to the point that he becomes addicted to you. 
This is really what you want, right?
This is all very easy and a lot of fun if you have a step by step plan to follow. If you follow the steps, the objective, which is to get your ex back, is almost guaranteed. If you are anything like me, you want to get your ex back as soon as possible, don't you?
But here is what I want you to do first. All through the blog you will keep hearing me ask you again and again, if you are sure that this man, your EX now, is the man that YOU want to be with.
It is important for you to assess this in an objective way and now that you have had the time to calm down, you haven't spoken to him for a few days, how do you feel?
Are you sure that you still want him back? You sure that you want to talk to him and be with him?
Is he good enough for YOU?
Once you are sure and you have made up your mind that you want to make this relationship work with him, then click here, download the programme and get started tonight.
It's the poise and the charm that you exude when you DO talk to your ex when he calls plus the steps outlined in the programme that works so well to make your ex-boyfriend FEEL like he has to be with you.
That's why by the time you are done, he is the one asking you to come back to HIM!



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