Missing An Ex - Tips On How To Win The Battle

Do you know why you are missing your ex? It is probably because you were dumped. He broke up with you and you two are no longer in frequent contact.

The break up was not your idea but your ex took a firm stance and said that you two could no longer see each other. Your ex probably started avoiding you because you started making yourself a nuisance by calling non-stop and trying to convince them that the break up was a mistake. Am I close?

The problem that you have is that you are not ready to let go. You are not ready to see someone else. You are not ready to move on yet. So you have decided that you want them back and that you will get your ex back at all costs.

The good news is that once you have made your mind up to get your ex back, you are already half way there! Unfortunately you still have to deal with the fact that you are missing your ex during the time when you two are not in frequent contact which is key to achieving your objective.

This is where many lose it. When you are missing your ex, even if every fibre of your being is screaming that you absolutely have to talk to your ex or you'll explode, you make it your duty to calm down and do any of the following:

-Where ever the phone or the computer is, go in the opposite direction
-Call your best friend to talk about absolutely nothing
-Call another friend to talk about absolutely nothing
-Go work out
-Go walk your dog
-Go pet your cat
-Read articles on what to do when you are missing an ex like here on my blog :) Of course, you are welcome any time.

In other words, find another object of attention and focus on it for as long as you need to until the feeling of missing your ex passes. All of this is a whole lot easier when you have a strategy you can count on to get you results.

I am pretty sure that you do not only want your ex back, you want to have your ex completely crazy about you. Do you want to learn how to do that?

When then click here, listen to the video and download the resource that I personally think will show you how to develop the type of attitude that will make your ex-boyfriend become attracted to you again and ask YOU to be in a relationship with him again.

You'll see exactly what I mean when you visit the page!

Missing An Ex - No, Get Your Ex To Miss You

If you are missing your ex, then it's probably because your ex has made himself scarce. You have no idea what he is doing anymore or who he is with because he has told you, either through word or action, to stop calling and nagging him. He wants to keep you at arm's length now.

No doubt, this is all playing on your mind. It is like a stuck record, isn't it? It's not fair for you to be missing him and for him to be ignoring you and worse, out living life as though he never even met you. No, no, no...this just will not do.

Let's barge into his comfortable, "I rule the world" little space and shake him up a bit and more importantly, have some fun while doing it! Let's beat him at his own game. Here's what you want to do in this order:

1. Stop communicating with him for about a week. This is crucial so just do it!

2. Send him a chirpy little text message and tell him that now you see that the break up was a good idea and that he was right. Thank him for it and don't forget to add "We'll catch up" and "Take care" or some such thing. He must feel like this is the last time he will ever hear from you.

3. Be like he is: scarce. Just vanish. Now he is thinking "where is she?". So far, so good!

4. Put up photos on all your social networking sites that show that you are in your element. Life has just become a blast for you...without him!

And voila, your ex is missing you! Step 1 of your game plan accomplished!

What do you do when he comes to track you down because that will happen? 

Just click here and find out the kind of attitude that you should have when he finds you. 


You are NOT going to mess this up after you have got this far.