If you are missing your ex, then it's probably because your ex has made himself scarce. You have no idea what he is doing anymore or who he is with because he has told you, either through word or action, to stop calling and nagging him. He wants to keep you at arm's length now.
No doubt, this is all playing on your mind. It is like a stuck record, isn't it? It's not fair for you to be missing him and for him to be ignoring you and worse, out living life as though he never even met you. No, no, no...this just will not do.
Let's barge into his comfortable, "I rule the world" little space and shake him up a bit and more importantly, have some fun while doing it! Let's beat him at his own game. Here's what you want to do in this order:
1. Stop communicating with him for about a week. This is crucial so just do it!
2. Send him a chirpy little text message and tell him that now you see that the break up was a good idea and that he was right. Thank him for it and don't forget to add "We'll catch up" and "Take care" or some such thing. He must feel like this is the last time he will ever hear from you.
3. Be like he is: scarce. Just vanish. Now he is thinking "where is she?". So far, so good!
4. Put up photos on all your social networking sites that show that you are in your element. Life has just become a blast for you...without him!
And voila, your ex is missing you! Step 1 of your game plan accomplished!
What do you do when he comes to track you down because that will happen?
Just click here and find out the kind of attitude that you should have when he finds you. You are NOT going to mess this up after you have got this far.
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