I'm still in love with my ex - He is moving on

How long have you two been together? And of course how long have you two broken up?

If your break up is still relatively fresh in your mind, of course you are still in love with your ex-boyfriend. Your feelings are not going to just go away like that from one day to the next just because you two are no longer together.

Of course, if you suspect or know for a fact that he is moving on, it can hurt and I do understand that.

But it's time for you to dry your tears and to try to feel better about yourself and the situation.

Think about it - if he is moving on

1. He definitely not sitting around thinking about you and worrying about what you are doing.

That's not to say that he doesn't remember you or give you a passing thought. It just means that for most of the day, he is not wrapped up with thoughts of you. It's not a good idea for you to be thinking about him that much either.

2. Have you decided what it is that you want to do? Do you want to move on as well or do you want him back?

For you to do either of the above, you have to know for sure what you want to do and then put a plan in place to achieve one or the other.

In other words, the fact that you say "I'm still in love with my ex", what does that mean?

Are you just making a statement or an observation or do you want to do something with it.

What are you afraid of or hoping for?

If you can't think through clearly what it is that you want or if you cannot articulate your feelings properly, then take a pen and a piece of paper and write them out.

How does you being in love with your ex but not being able to be with him make you feel?

Then decide what situation would you rather be in?

Would you rather move on as well and try to get over him?

If so then, write down what life would be like if you didn't think about him.

What would you be doing? Where would you be going? Who would you be doing these things with? How would you feel?

Make sure that you describe a perfect day without any thought of him whatsoever, a day when you are blissfully happy and content!

Now do the very same process if you would like to get back together with your ex - but you have got to be sure this is what you want!

Write down what life would be like if you got back together with him!

Describe a perfect day with him! Where would you two be? How would you feel if you were with him?

Happy, contented! Basking in the fact he is is completely in love with and has eyes only for you. He leans over and gives you a soft kiss on the lips and tells you how much he loves you!

And you a ecstatic that you too are in love with him. Feel the love and the contentment.

So which will it be? What makes you feel happy?

If you decide to move on, I'm all for it! Do whatever makes you feel good!

If you decide that you'd like to try a relationship with him again, I'm all for that too and luckily for that one I know just the plan that you can use to achieve that!

One formulated with you in mind, that puts you first and which will help you to get your ex-boyfriend back!

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This is your plan. You know what you want, right? To get your ex-boyfriend back... So make sure you take action and get what you want! Yes, you can get your ex-boyfriend back.

Why men pull away - 3 signs that he may want to break up with you

How often do men initiate conversations about relationships? Hardly ever. I'd say that most often they try to avoid these types of conversations like the plague.

So how are we, as women, supposed to understand exactly what they are saying to us when there are no outright, clear verbal cues and signals?

Well, we have to interpret some of the non-verbal cues and actions. Of course at times, since they are non-verbal, we may think that we are over-reacting to them or picking up the wrong signals because we can never really be sure if we are indeed interpreting the signals correctly.

But I always say to follow your gut instincts when you are picking up on non-verbal cues a guy is giving. When men pull away, it is a clear indication that something is not quite right. Of course there are a number of reasons why men pull away but the bottom line is that is not usually a good sign.

Another piece of advice you should always follow is to pay attention to what a man does as opposed to what he says because then you get to the heart of what is really going on a lot faster.

So let's look at some of the things that a man might do that should signal to you that he is thinking about breaking up with you. See if any of these sound familiar...

1. He becomes extremely busy at work or on projects - too busy to spend time with you or call you like before.

Because a man would rather eat his arm off than to tell a woman that he is no longer interested in her and, in fact, he really wants to split up, to avoid that talk, the confrontation, the questions and a flood of negative emotions coming his way, he'll just become very scarce. 

That is just easier for him to deal with so he'll either become wrapped up in work as a pretext to avoid seeing you or he'll just use it an excuse even if his workload has not increased.

2. He doesn't text you cute stuff anymore. 

When a man is into you and content and happy being with you, he'll send you little texts throughout the day. It's his way of letting you know that he's are thinking about you. In some of the texts, he may actually say that he misses you. That is how you know that you are indeed on mind.

When the cute texts stop, in conjunction with Point 1 above, it is a good sign that he may be thinking of splitting up with you.

3. His focus even when he is with you is elsewhere.

When you are with him now, you notice that his focus is not wholly on you. You feel as though he would rather be somewhere else.

Though he would never admit that to you, his actions alone will tell you that he is not fully focused on the two of you being together. He may be playing with his phone; not at all interested in having conversation with you; more in tune with whatever is on television than with you.

If any of these happen in isolation however, it may very well just be that he is worried about something or in a bad mood.

In point 3, the lack of interest should present itself more than once and in other forms for you to suspect that there is something about the relationship that is not going well for him and that will clue you in that a break-up may be on the horizon.

If you have seen any of the above signs then yes, it may just be his way of telling you that he wants to break up with you.

Click here for a strategy that will get him hopelessly attracted  to you again so that he stops thinking about wanting to break up with you!